Tuesday, November 26, 2013

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Catholic sees comedy as part of everyday life, a form of evangelization

INDIANAPOLIS (CNS) -- A peek into the halls of the Indiana Convention Center during the National Catholic Youth Conference in Indianapolis Nov. 21-23 would show different aspects of the faith. A bishop talked about turning off electronic devices to find time for God. A priest discussed how to combine fitness and prayer time. And on a stage in a large exhibit hall, comedian Judy McDonald commented on the questions she is asked as result of her service dog, Daisy. "They'll ask if I'm blind -- while I'm texting," she jokes. McDonald and Daisy were part of the conference's afternoon recreation portion Nov. 23 in an hour-and-a-half session called the Comedy Club. The pair was joined by seven other comedy acts to lighten the mood after two-and-a-half days of praise, worship and faith-growing sessions. "Comedy is in our life every day, like depression and dinner and pancakes and snot," said McDonald, a lifelong Catholic and former youth and campus minister. McDonald has struggled with post-traumatic stress disorder for the last three years, and Daisy helps her cope.

Catholic comedian connects faith, life and humor during NCYC performance

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National Catholic Youth Conference 2013

Catholic comedian connects faith, life and humor during NCYC performance

After performing a comedy routine on stage on Nov. 23 in an exhibit hall, comedian Judy McDonald pays some attention to her service dog, Daisy, at her booth at the National Catholic Youth Conference at the Indiana Convention Center in Indianapolis. (Photo by Natalie Hoefer)
After performing a comedy routine on stage on Nov. 23 in an exhibit hall, comedian Judy McDonald pays some attention to her service dog, Daisy, at her booth at the National Catholic Youth Conference at the Indiana Convention Center in Indianapolis. (Photo by Natalie Hoefer)


 
By Natalie Hoefer
A peek into the exhibit halls of the Indiana Convention Center during the National Catholic Youth Conference (NCYC) in Indianapolis on Nov. 21-23 would show different aspects of the faith.
A bishop talked about turning off electronic devices to find time for God.
A priest discussed how to combine fitness and prayer time.

And on a stage in a large exhibit hall, comedian Judy McDonald commented on the questions she is asked because of her service dog, Daisy.
“They’ll ask if I’m blind—while I’m texting,” she jokes.
McDonald and Daisy were part of the Saturday afternoon recreation portion of NCYC in an hour-and-a-half session called the Comedy Club.
The pair was joined by seven other comedy acts to lighten the mood after two-and-a-half days of praise, worship and faith-growing sessions.
“Comedy is in our life every day, like depression and dinner and pancakes and snot,” said McDonald, a lifetime Catholic and former youth and campus minister.
“Life is life. I think we tend to compartmentalize God into a separate area, and he doesn’t want that. He wants all of it.
“So I think, why not put Catholicism in comedy and comedy in Catholicism? It’s part of our life.”
McDonald, who lives in San Diego, sees comedy as a form of the new evangelization.
“I integrate a funny talk with sharing my faith. I did that even in secular clubs. I was part of the new evangelization, and I didn’t even know it.”
McDonald has been performing as a comedian for 20 years. She started doing comedy on the side while a freshman at the University of San Diego.
After graduating, McDonald served as campus minister for her alma mater.
Later, while working as youth minister for a junior high school, she felt a push toward full-time comedy—out of necessity.
“The priest at the time said, ‘You know how you want to be a comedian? Well, this is God’s way of shoving you into that because we don’t have enough money to pay you anymore.’ I was like, ‘Thank you?’ But now I praise God for it.”
She switched to full-time comedy in 2003, speaking at faith-based conferences, Life Teen events and parishes.
Soon she was invited to go overseas to perform at garrisons and army bases. That led to speaking at parishes in Ireland and other countries, and eventually large venues like NCYC.
But all was not comedy and laughter in McDonald’s life.
“My childhood was not particularly good, and no one knew about it until I was about 30,” she said.
As a result of the incidents of her past, McDonald has suffered from Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD) for the last three years.
“My doctor said getting a service dog would be good for me, but that it was $10,000. I didn’t exactly have that in the cookie jar,” she said.
McDonald prayed about what to do. She decided to send a letter to all those for whom she’d worked in the past, as well as adding the plea to her Facebook fan page.
“I really felt the Holy Spirit nudging me to trust that if these people cared for me then they would help me.”
Within two weeks, McDonald had the $10,000.
“I really feel like God gave me [my service dog] Daisy,” she said. “She came from the aptly named ‘Little Angels Service Dogs’ in San Diego. She alerts me when I’m going to have a panic attack or flashback or nightmares,” McDonald explained.
“She’s not the end all be all, but God has certainly put her in my pathway as a gift, and I respect her as such. She really is my little angel.”
The dog has proven to be a blessing in her comedic ministry as well.
“She’s great after shows when kids want to come up and talk to me,” said McDonald. “She’s that extra push that comforts kids if they want to share something with me. I’m someone from out of town, and they may not be comfortable telling their youth minister, but they’ll talk to me.
“Of course, I then tell them to share it with their youth minister or priest or mom,” she said.
McDonald is a fan of NCYC, and not just for the economic opportunity it provides.
“I love this venue. It’s so great for the kids to see before they go off to college that it’s OK to be Catholic.
“If I’d known what these kids are learning here, I would have stayed Catholic out of love instead of fear,” she admitted.
“It’s so great to see them having fun and doing it because they want to do it. Now their kids are going to learn, and it’s just going to build.
“These kids aren’t the Church of the future, they’re the Church right now,” said McDonald. “Anybody could come here and have hope. If anyone is disillusioned about the Church, they need to come here and see this.
“[NCYC] gives me hope throughout the year. I can look back at this and say, ‘The Church is OK.’ ” †
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Friday, November 22, 2013

NCYC

We are at Lucas Oil for NCYC and we found the easiest way to tell 23,000 people at the same time NOT to pet my service dog. 

Monday, November 11, 2013

My Friend Christina & her Service Dog Zoe

Service woes

I’m having a hard day. Having Zoe is supposed to make my life easier, and in a lot of ways, she does… But lately it’s been really hard dealing with the ignorance of people in public when they’re interacting with us as a service dog/handler team (or should be completely ignoring us).

Basically tonight, I went to Fatburger in North Hollywood to pick up a sandwich I called in and naturally, I had Zoe with me. At the counter, the girl says to me “there’s no animals allowed in here”. I say, “she’s a service dog”, and the girl says “ok but there’s no animals in here.” At this point, I just repeat and say “she’s not a pet, she’s a medical animal” to a blank stare. Then another CUSTOMER steps in and says something, to which the girl says “fine ok, as long as I don’t get in trouble”, with a tone and rolling her eyes like she doesn’t believe me. It might not sound like a huge deal, but believe me, I felt accosted, I felt people staring at me, and was made to feel like I was in the wrong… obviously if someone else had to come up and defend me. Even after I was leaving, I heard another employee say something about me having an animal, and the original girl saying “she said it’s a service dog”. So how many people there exactly are unaware what a vested service animal looks like?

It’s sad that I should almost expect this kind of ignorance from strangers, but I never thought I’d have to deal with it from employees of a corporate chain. You’d like a company would have some sort of training for their employees on what a service dog looks like.

It’s easy now to defend myself now, but in the moment, I feel on display, attacked and awkward… and all I want to do is flee and I freeze up. So naturally, I did and then just cried in the car afterwards.

When we’re out, I don’t want to talk about us, I don’t want to have to explain 100 times what she does… I just want to be ignored and treated like anyone else. Being called out constantly for having a disability animal with me is not helping me at all. I’ve had people yell across stores “is that your dog?”, “are you training her?” Or “look at the pretty doggy!”.

Some days are easier than others, and today’s just not one of them…

Friday, November 01, 2013

LAX

Even though some bad things happened today at LAX we got to see our friends from the Jacob and Matthew band before we got on our flight to Seattle. Hooray!